I posted this on my first blog some years back — now I’ll re-post it here for those who haven’t read it yet.
For a few years I worked in a doughnut shop, mostly with young people in their teens & early twenties. One of these was very much on the opposite end of the “scene” from me: he was a drummer in a rock band and claimed to be a devil worshiper, while I was a very conservative Christian in my late forties. The vibes were not good!
Being older and a lot wiser than when I was a teen, I couldn’t help trying to pass on the odd bit about what works and what doesn’t in the issues of life. One day this particular young fellow made a cynical comment about me always being so full of wise thoughts. “What wise thing do you have to say today?” he asked in a mocking tone.
I thought a minute, then told him something that I have noticed time and again: “The more piercings, the more tattoos, the weirder the hairdo somebody has, the more insecure they are.”
He contemplated this for a minute. I was surprised when he actually admitted, “You’re right.”