Time Management Woes
As you may realize, this past winter Iāve become increasingly frustrated with my lack of order and productivity. This isnāt new; all my life Iāve refused to be a slave to schedules and To-Do lists ā but this has left me with a case of chronic indecision. Bogged down with āWhere to start?ā
Also, Iāve been a hoarder. Part of my effort to make improvements Iāve already written about: decrease the paper clutter; finish small writing projects. But the bigger projects still await my attention ā and zeal. Too many āStarted, not finishedā projects are like a stone holding your head under water.
This week a book title popped up in BookBub:
10 time management choices that can change your life.
I checked it out and decided to take a chance. Iāve have been working my way through it in the past few days and itās been nailing me right and left. Addressing issues like why you never get done the big things because of wasting time, indecision, procrastination. Creative people who hop from one project to another. Never finishing ā or startingā a project because youāre too much of a perfectionist. Examples of others who sound so much like me. Ouch!
From what Iāve read so far, I can heartily endorse the book. How much benefit I get from it depends on how many changes Iām willing to make in my day-to-day activities. One quote really hit home, citing my prime nemesis:
āThings which matter most must never be at the mercy of things which matter least.ā Goethe
Now I’m thinking specifically of my writing projects sitting on the back burner. The books Iāve written for NaNoWriMo, for example. I can see how lack of accountability and lack of a deadline have stalled me. You could say, āFilling my days with the things which matter least.ā
I was once a part of a writing group that met once a week and was a real inspiration to keep working at my writing. I miss that. So Iād like to ask you readers for your suggestions. Iām looking for online writing partners or a group that will add some pressure, some deadlines.
Last night I googled and checked out online writing groups, hoping to find one where members exchange chapters for critiquing. Some beta readers or an editor who will reply in reasonable time and wonāt cost this penniless writer a lot of dough. Not a given weekly writing assignment, but feed-back on my WIPs. (By e-mail; no Facebook, Yahoo groups or Skype.)
Iām hoping to find a few critique partners somewhat on my own wavelength. Iām happy to give feedback on othersā writing but donāt want to have to read ten zombi and/or horror chapters a week just to get feedback for my own mild tales. (Been there, done that once.)
Any suggestions? Anyone interested in reading and critiquing, sharing WIP projects? If so, please leave a comment, or email me at christinevanceg @ gmail.com